Romance is the spice of life, and like every art form, books reuse familiar patterns to captivate audiences.
But what happens when certain tropes stop troping and a story that should be an escape turns into a debate? Let’s explore five fiction romance book tropes that need to be revisited.
Many enemies-to-lovers plots are…concerning. When well done, harmless disagreements or mutual dislike lead to affection. Too often, though, this trope crosses into unhealthy territory: Stockholm syndrome, excusing abuse, or glossing over trauma.
Some genres permit heavier conflict within reasonable bounds, like a terrible first impression that improves with time and mutual understanding. But glorifying suffering? No.
There’s too much drama in a love triangle. A straightforward progression of meet-cute, major conflict, finding rhythm, and living happily would be fine.
Instead, a character could bounce between two love interests like they’re playing catch. Then, finally, after endless musings, public showcases, and interventions, they select one (the other stays a friend), or worse, none, because self-love is more important than petty feelings.
Anyone who had a Wattpad phase knows this trope needs a holiday. It’s either fake dating a brother’s best friend or a random stranger, which almost always ✨suddenly✨ ends up in a real relationship.
Hint: These stories are easy to spot. The titles could be ‘My Best Friend’s Brother’, ‘The Stranger Afffair’, or ‘Falling for My Best Friend’.
No too much shalaye here. It’s big 2025, and we’re still waiting for a prince to save women? Life happens, and sometimes it breaks a person’s spirit. In these moments, taking time to process the pain and heal is necessary.
However, it is one thing to go through challenges, and another to make it a personality trait. Stand up!
All the rom-com and fairy-tale lovers should hold their pitchforks. Please take this as gently as possible: there is no such thing as love at first sight.
While love at first sight doesn’t exist, attraction that develops into love does. Love is rooted in the security of shared values, or other traits that make another’s constant presence a necessity. Many loved fiction romance book tropes show attraction growing into love, yet label it misleadingly.
There’s nothing wrong with enemy-to-lovers, fake dating, damsel in distress, or love at first sight book tropes. Some books are exceptions, offering fresh, light-hearted takes.
Imitation is the best form of flattery, but utilising familiar material with authenticity and emotional health is the highest compliment. Enjoy the next read!
