The Blessed Girl by Angela Makholwa

Some work regular jobs to get it, while others earn a degree in Menology( the men pay their bills). Set in South Africa, Bontle is on the top of that list of women with degrees in Menology

Every girl wants to live an extraordinary life, have luxurious cars, exquisite clothes and go on exotic holidays.

Some work regular jobs to get it, while others earn a degree in Menology( the men pay their bills). Set in South Africa, Bontle is on the top of that list of women with degrees in Menology, and she is not going to spare her audience on her exotic lifestyle funded by a blesser– a person ( usually male and married) who sponsors a younger woman with luxury gifts or luxurious lifestyle in exchange for a short to mid-term relationship.

This was a fast-paced read for the first two parts of the book. Although a lot of people might not agree with such a lifestyle, in reality, this is still a book that everyone would enjoy.

I love how the author portrayed Bontle. Even though she was materialistic and not book smart, she was still portrayed as a resilient and street smart woman.

What did I learn from her lifestyle? Everyone has a story, and rather than judging them, drink water and mind your business.

Gladys Tau represents mothers who make bad decisions that affect their kids and sometimes refuse to take responsibility for their actions.

I think every woman needs an Ntokozo in their life. He was a strong representative of what a lover and friend should be like, staying by Bontle’s side through every storm.

What I didn’t like

I didn’t quite like the ending. It felt so stereotypical; girls who live this certain lifestyle do not always have to end up with the same verdict. It shouldn’t always be sad endings.

Also, I wouldn’t say I liked the fact that the author tried to justify  Bontle’s lifestyle choice. I mean, your past experiences should not determine how you should prepare for your future.

As much as this was an interesting read, the author tackled serious themes such as drug abuse, child neglect, depression, HIV awareness and teenage pregnancy. I would recommend this for anyone looking for a quick read and needing something to escape their reality.